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SAUGERTIES - Lynn R. Sinsapaugh, 76, of Notch View Blvd. died Saturday, March 8, 2025 at the Health Alliance Hospital. Born December 10, 1948 in the Bronx, she was the daughter of the late Ernest and Carolyn Ingrassia. Survivors include her husband, Robert; a daughter, Toniann Walters of FL; a son, Barry (Christy) Van Steenburg Jr. of SC; a stepson, Phoenix (Suzu) Kawamoto of Dutchess County; two brothers, John (Valerie) of CT and Stevie (Kathy) Ingrassia; grandchildren, Barry III, Austin, Seth, Caleb, Vanessa, Joshua and Ari and her great grandson, Liam. She was predeceased by a brother, Thomas and sister-in-law, Theresa Ingrassia.
Originally from the Bronx, Lynn relocated to the upstate (Saugerties) where she had resided for the past almost sixty years. One of the things Lynn brought with her, and held onto throughout her life was her Italian heritage. Whether it was the fact you couldn’t enter or leave her presence without a kiss on the cheek, the frequent family gatherings, or her infamous spaghetti and meatballs with gravy (yes, the red stuff everyone else calls sauce), Lynn enjoyed keeping that part of her heritage alive.
Lynn, Mom, Nanny, Grandma, and Mousie all refer to the same individual whose devotion to her family had been a hallmark of her life. She was a devoted daughter to her parents who lived across the street for several decades before their passing, giving her the opportunity to care more intimately for them in their waning years.
She was a devoted sister to her three brothers and sisters-in-love. Whether it was a call on the phone or hanging out at the house, they always knew she cared about them and their families. She was a devoted wife to her husband Robert, who together celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary this past August. She was his constant – companion, lover, and friend – and he was hers. Whether it was on the deck, at the bowling alley, or at the store, they were always together and they never grew tired of it.
She was a devoted mother to three children, oftentimes living sacrificially to provide for their means and their best. Seen as small and timid by most, she was as ferocious as a momma bear if she thought her children were in danger, or being hurt by others. She was a devoted grandmother to her seven grandchildren (and most recently, great-grandchild). There’s no love like that of a grandmother and they all knew that her heart was full of pride and joy for them.
Last, but not least, she was a devoted aunt to her many nieces and nephews. What started out as her dad teasing her for being so quiet in a house with three brothers, became a lifeline moniker of affection, “Aunt Mousie.” It is safe to say that Lynn strove with all of her being to make everyone feel seen and loved. If you needed something and she had it, it was yours. And if she didn't, she'd figure out a way. Her door was always open, and her heart wider still. She will be missed greatly by all who knew and loved her.
In addition to leaving a legacy of love for others, Lynn leaves a legacy of faith. The crowning moment of Lynn’s life came when she placed her faith in Christ alone for salvation. She sought to pass on that legacy to her children and grandchildren. Her faith was her source of hope in seeing her parents once again, as well as other loved ones who preceded her in death. All who share that same faith have the hope of seeing her one day again as well.
Her funeral service will be held at 12:00 PM, Wednesday, March 12, 2025. Interment will follow in Blue Mt. Cemetery. Friends will be received 3:00 PM - 6:00 PM on Tuesday, March 11, 2025.
Expressions of condolence may be shared with the family on Lynn's Tribute Wall at SeamonWilseyFuneralHome.com
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